Divorce Support Forums: What can I do?

Hey everybody, I'm starting a divorce but I have no idea where to start. Here's my situation, I was in the Marine Corps for 6 years and I was discharged for an injury that I suffered on active duty. Well I was forced out of the military and I couldn't find a job quick enough and my bills started to add up, collections were calling me everyday and eventually my vehicle was repossesed and I was asking my parents for money to buy groceries. Well that's no way to live so I decided to get a job in Kuwait (fast money and tax free). Like I said earlier I was in the Marine Corps, well I figured she could handle paying the bills. Well that wasn't the case, she didn't pay any of my bills and another car of mine was repossesed. Then she tells me she wants a divorce, and I agreed. Well I found out that she is living with a boyfriend and she is pregnant. She used my money that I was sending home to buy a brand new car. So I found out all this and decided that it was time to take a vacation to see what's going on and she withdrew all the money in the bank account so I can't buy a plane ticket. So basically I'm stranded here in Kuwait and I can't even get a personal loan because of what she did to my credit. We have two children and Im' worried about what the outcome of this situation will be. She asked me for 700 dollars a month for the kids, then she wants 1000.oo now. I dont know what to do, should I give her the money? I don't want to be supporting her new boyfriend while he sits there and watches my t.v. She has an apartment now, when I do go home... Can I go to her apartment without any approval. I need to get all the account numbers for my bills, and get copies of my seperation paperwork from the Marine Corps. Well she has all that information in her apartment. Is there anything legal that say's I can't go into the apartment. What rights do I have to protect me in this situation. I plan on changing my bank account today so she won't be able to access my accounts anymore. I need some help people, please. All I wanted to do is provide for my family and I got screwed, big time. any suggestions will be welcomed. Thanks.

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