Don't feel bad! I don't want mine either! I'm furious that after 6 years he can just up and leave me and my son, and my future and happiness are in his hands! How do you convince someone you love to give it another try that, that's what marriage is, it's a working progress and that it's not something you say "Oh I don't want to do it anymore, it's work" WTF yeah marriage is work. Some people just don't seem to understand that, and that there actions effect everyone else not just them.