My STBXW went behind my back (after she filed) and put the house that we own together on the market. It is still on the market, and now she has it rented out (once again, behind my back) I need to move into that house since I assume the courts will decide who gets it in the end - we both have legal right to it, and she isn't living there. Why would her lawyer advise her that any of this is okay to do?