i had a 1 yr restraining order against my husband,he violated and had to go to court today. he has been feeding bullshit and lies all weekend. i'll go to counceling,i love you,im sorry...all the bull and i fell for it..i dropped the restraining order against everyone's advise..i wanted to believe my husband...i even paid his $120 fine for the violation and told the d a i did not want him to go to jail...he told my children we were going to work things out and be a family again...we hung out for a while after court...he told me he loved me and all the same bla bla bla...later he text me and told me he had a girlfriend and was still seeing her kinda...in his words...havent heard from him since...this was hours ago...he wont answer his phone for me or his kids...have text him and get no reply...what have i done?????