Alot of people will tll you to go to counseling, etc. Most of the time,men won't go and even if you do reconcile, he will keep these thoughts in his mind forever. Believe me! Perhaps it is time to consider moving on. I dont know him personally but if he is like the average male, your best bet may be to leave. Perhaps some time apart will help you both to realize how silly this is and you can put it all behind you. Stay with some family for a few days. Good Luck!
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