My second job is taking care of my three boys. I get out of work at 4pm & p/u from the bus stop at 4:30pm. My husband works till 7pm (sometimes later). It really isn't an option.
Its not like I went shopping or something- the problem is I wans't working in NY and we couldn't afford 2 car payments, 2800 mortgage and all the other bills- so instead of telling him (I was afraid to make him angry) I just didn't pay them or I paid them late/ every other month. I never told him. The big thing isn't the money (in NC with me working we can afford our bills)- its the fact that his credit is shot.