I moved to another state from Illinois. Left an alcholic/verbally abusive partner. I live with family now. I have the kids. He (w/his mom's help) has seen the children but, has not given nearly amply child support (less than $100). Just filled for child support in July and haven't heard back yet. Does anyone have experience w/ unmarried situations and how child custody is resolved if I was the one who left and moved to a diffrent state? Please help. I am afraid to file for custody only because of the cost. But, this visitation is out of control! And I feel guilty for thier grandmother. But, she raised a MEAN person who drinks, smokes pot and parties weekly. I know I would be awarded custody. I am just afraid of the cost factor. Thank you in advance for any input!!