Well if you are all under the house and it is miserable then be carefull. Don't do anything stupid.
Ok here is the deal. He has no chance of full custody in the State of Washington unless he can prove you are an unfit mother and appearantly that is next to impossible to prove. In Washington you can be a drug addict but you are rahabilitable so you won't even loose custody there.
Washington State believes you are the better Parent just because you are a Mommy. The only way you will loose custody is if you leave the kid with him for a period of time.
I am shocked that your lawyer told you to stay in the house. They only advantage to that is the material stuff in it. The only thing that will be ugly is if you leave with the child. That might cause a fight, but if you go down and file for a seperation and a temperary custody order there really isn't much he can do about that. Didn't you lawyer have any good advice for you?
You should get a better lawyer. Actually you probably don't even need one here. As long as you were not in legal trouble her really doesn't have a leg to stand on.
Good luck and keep me posted.
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