I filed in June due to years of lies/deceiption/and alcohol/drug abuse. Was in counseling several times without any change. He had requested to divorce back in Sept. but decided to not file because he wanted to make it appear I am the "bad" guy. We have one child. He has not particpated in our childs upbringing (special needs child) only has contributed financially. Now I am living in a home where he is not being forced to leave, though I have proven emotional abuse. I am not financially able to get out on my own without some money from our home.
My biggest question is....am I the ONLY one in this state that is required to live like this? He is allowed to come and go as he pleases while I am working parttime, full time childcare (child is in school)but he is with me the rest of the time.
Just curious I guess. I feel pretty confused and alone.