It just seems so unfair that she tell him untrue things and I cant defend myself. I guess its my nature. I will try to follow your advice. I guess I need to stop listening to the voicemails she sends him. I just cant believe some of the things she says about me. I just feel insecure sometimes. He doesnt support me or my daughter, in fact I dont ask for any financial help. He is really tight. Thats what makes me wonder why he would trust her so much. Thanks for the advice.