I filed for divorce, he was supposed to be served at his work last week. he knew it so he told everyone at work that if anyone asked for him to say he wasnt there. at this point the papers have been returned to my attorney and she says we have a choice, either a sheriff serves him when he returns to work on the 17th (he is now on "vacation" at home) or (this is what she prefers) i have a friend serve him. I dont know who i would have do it first of all, I have not been "allowed" to have friends so my friends are all through work or are friends of his. what should I do?? also, we had a hearing date for the 17th because there is also a motion for him to move out of the house, but I was told he had to have 2 weeks notice for that which obviously he avoided. any advice?