yes. I am another just like yourself. It's a nightmare! I told him in Nov I wanted the divorce. We are still living together. Worst nightmare of my entire life! My next hearing isn't till Nov 19th. You'll get tougher as time goes on. You deserve to be there more than him. If he doesn't leave..it's his choice. I think the arguements are tough on the kids though. It is hard not to want to shout off the roof tops sometimes that's the worst part.
-------------------- Can't wait to start my life over again! Im gonna take a lot less crap next time!!