Here is the final saga to this story. Richard has to drive from north las vegas to henderson to pick up his son from school, its about 25 miles. Then he takes him a few miles farther to pick up some stuff from his house. When they got to his house richard asked if he could use the bathroom. His son said he couldnt come in. Richard was mad and lashed out at his son and told him "then I cant keep the guinea pig". When I got home richard told me that there was a big fight between him and his son. I calmly said "do you really think that your son is making the rules? and not keeping the guinea pig or telling him that was not a good idea. You are hurting him more than he is already hurt because his mother puts him in the middle doesnt mean you can." Anyway, Richard was mad enough to go the insurance co this morning and take her name off. Maybe he is learning.
Now I am getting all these text messages from her. I am not going to respond because I know she is just going to show her son the messages from me.
By the way. I did ask richard since we put his old dog down last week if he wanted to keep the dog, we could try to see if it could work with the cat. He said no.
and...dont you worry, I made richard go in and talk to his son. My daughter was in there talking to him when I got home. If he didnt have my daughter, im afraid he would go crazy.
I guess im learning to let things happen. I was really hurt about the insurance when it first happened. I did lash out. I should have kept my mouth shut. Luckily id didnt hurt our relationship. I hsve learned from these postings is to keep your mouth shut. Its working. Thanks for all the advice.
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