Get a lawyer and file for divorce and ask for temp orders to see your child. At his age and in the Bible Belt you won't get more than standard visitation but go get it. Until you do she'll keep you from seeing the child until he forgets you and then use that as an excuse for not wanting you to see the child. And don't forget to call SSI and tell them she's split. They need to stop that check. And if she makes more money than you do, ask for spousal support. Go get a lawyer. Don't wait for her. Go on the offensive and stick up for your parental rights to your child. Forget her. Focus on the child.