Suprising same situation. Mine doesn't really do anything w/kids either. I do all the commuting, interacting, cleaning etc at this point. He lives in basement. He goes to the gym when they come home and returns long after dark. I can't afford the house. Looks like mine wants to buy me out. I can't wait to separate either.
-------------------- Can't wait to start my life over again! Im gonna take a lot less crap next time!!