Thank you for responding my issue. I know what he is doing is not fair, and what he wants, but I still love him. And I probably haven't caught up this change. I am having a hard time accepting some of the facts.
My daughter knows about it already. She is 12. I have 8 years old son, also. She told daddy that she loves him, but she does not love what he is doing(separating).
I was advised to go to court for custody and child support and maybe spousal support for the separation period.
All the car is titled with my husband name. We have joint bank account, and he hasn't done anything yet. I can still use to pay bill. The other woman lives outside of the states, so they have to fly to see each other.