Divorce Support Forums: Required to remain in same house

Yes... it is real miserable. Yesterday my lawyer explained unless there is domestic abuse or severe psycological abuse that he will not be ordered to leave. I won't get alimony till I move out. Our hearing is coming up on the 19th of nov. My lawyer said sit tight till we get an agreement on the equity amount, cs and alimony from him and his attourney. He doesn't want to pay alimony. I want to continue to work part time so that I can go back to school for a higher paying position and would need the alimony to do so. He got his masters degree while i took care of the kids and worked. I am not gonna work full time unless I get completely strapped. I already work 20hrs/week. This is more than I have ever worked during my married life. He expects me to go full time and lock myself into a days/nights positon working weekends and holidays as a floor nurse which i no longer have to do as I have a better position w/great hours which i earned. It is funny that I helped put him through anesthesia school so neither of us would have to do these shifts and holidays anymore. Now he tells a different story. I helped him and he doesn't want to do anything to make my life easier. He just wants out to go shack up w/his new lover. I think the kids see that. I have lost alot of respect for him and they will lose respect for him too if he continues to make bad choices for us. He should do right by us. It's funny how quickly people forget that commitment they made "for better or worse" and how much they cared for you and promised "till death do us part." You bail... you need to continue to support your family..it's your choice. I can't respect someone who refuses to support me after they cheated on me! He made the commitment for better or worse, death do us part...live up to that..you said it..I heard it! I think i'll get out the wedding video for a review. I feel good about myself..wonder how he feels about himself.

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Can't wait to start my life over again! Im gonna take a lot less crap next time!!

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