I will be left here to do everything and sell our house. We have only been married just under 3 years. When we met I had quit a job (it was planned and I had money to pay my bills) When he gets mad he says that I didn't even have a job when we met. (I put myself thru college-took 10 years, owned a home, have excellent credit, etc.) He may try to play that card in court when I ask for temp support while finding a house (the home we have is way out, too big and expensive for even us 3, and not close to when I would need to work and have daycare). It is 3x as expensive to live in CA and neither of us could afford to buy a house anytime soon. How would the court figure the child support? He makes $100,000 but it doesn't go as far in CA as it would here. Also, with such a short marriage what does that affect? We also have $60 from the sale of my previous home that I feel is mymoney and I would need to get back on my feet while finding a job.