I keep feeling bad for my husband having to go through divorce alone in CA (he is very much a "loner" and not very social unless it is a work setting). I feel sorry for him because as I told him, I don't think he realizes what he is also choosing when taking this job (considering our rocky marriage). He REALLY believes he must take this job and that there is not other alternative, no matter what I tell him or how muchm oney we have in the bank. I don't want him to have no money for himself in CA. Will the court in KY consider the high cost of living in CA and what he will have to pay for housing there? I don't want to hurt him or for him to not be able to afford to live there. BTW, his career field is pretty specialized and he did look here for a job too. (I still think he could find SOMETHING here in KY that he is qualified to do but he is pretty picky as this is HIS CAREER and not just a "job".