Hi all, just wanted to let you know another perspective. I am one of those spouses that this initiating divorce. But let me say that I DON'T want a divorce. I'm not sure if any of you know how if feels for years to feel that you're the only one fighting for a marriage. I was the one asking for counseling while he argued that nothing was wrong. I was the one making the sacrifices . . . Then eventually, you realize that love isn't supposed to hurt so much & you realize that you deserve better. Even now, if he were to say "I get it, let's work at it." I would consider, but unfortunately, that's not the case.
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