after 30 years my daughter caught her father cheating on me and thats when he had to admit it otherwise he probably wouldn't. he has been seeing her for 10 months and would come home and come to bed with me and text her when i was sleeping. i had locks changed after he took a bag of his clothes out of the house and he told me i had to give him a set but when he showed up with the cops for some items they told me since he was removing clothing i owed him no keys. i can't go to an attorney right now, no money, and i need the home equity paid that we are using for our kids college. I also found out that he opened a new company but i cant' find out the name of it. i don't want to screw myself or my kids. boy am i in a mess. right now i hate my life.