sit her down and TALK!!! this is the source of alot of my problems; we dont talk, hold her, tell her how you feel and both of you ask for a second chance. yes she cheated on you and you hurt; but what brought her to the cheating? you obvioulsy loved each other at one time ( you got married right?) try your hardest to work it out. i hope i get a second chance
-------------------- " I believe divorce is the easy road. I am ready to take the hard road."