Thanks for posting. Unfortunately it is in the papers. I had separate legal counsel. The first chapter to this story is in a previous post. The children are 10, and 13. She would be moving roughly 4.5 to 5 hrs. away. In my opinion it would greatly complicate my seeing the children. Obviously you will do whatever..and 5 hrs. is nothing to some people. I just feel it is unnecessary and not a priority or "moral support" issue for her. It also greatly bothers me that after 14 yrs. of marriage she pre meditated the whole thing before filing. She is not a bad person which totally blows me away that someone would even think about pulling this...it seems abnormal to me. I seem to be the only one suffering from all of this because obviously nothing in her life has changed except me not being there.