So he's going to live with you until Nov 30th? So 20% 1st kid, 5% each one thereafter. This is what I've heard.
I agree Thanksgiving, Christmas, before the school year..there is no "good time".
Having to refinance in 90days, sounds hurried. Are you aware of how and when and where to do this? Your already pre-approved?
Sounds like yours worked out great. Not to pry, but was he proven to be at fault or in other words why did the divorce happen? I've heard sometimes if the other party is "obviously or grossly at fault in the marriage" they get "spanked" a bit more...they lose their bargaining power with the mediator.
thanks so much, your freshness of the post, really describes your mediation procedure well.