Unlike child support, spousal support is often very difficult (if not impossible) to modify after the divorce is final, so getting it right the first time is a must!
You need a PI OR a disinterested 3rd party to prove adultery . Fault would have more of an affect on the person asking for alimony , a lesser or no award if the person requesting it were at fault for the break-up of the marriage . Fault is a consideration for whether or not support is ordered but shouldn't really effect the amount but it COULD effect the duration of any award . The amount depends more on the assets/income of the person that would be required to pay .
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