Unlike child support, spousal support is often very difficult (if not impossible) to modify after the divorce is final, so getting it right the first time is a must!
Was married 19yrs have full custody.(3 boys) He offered to pay 1680/month and wants 1 yr alimony @ 1000/month. I have alway worked partime as a nurse. My income last year was 24,000..his was 177,000. Does this seem right?? I see my lawyer and financial guy Tuesday..my next hearing is nov 19th. Just need some ideas. He didn't address the college money issue as I asked him to. I want him to do some type of savings for the kids college he could manage..he didn't address it in the offer. He has a masters and wants them to attend college. He has a pattern of being cheap..any ideas what to do next if he didn't address it. Do I have to sign if I don't like the offer??
-------------------- Can't wait to start my life over again! Im gonna take a lot less crap next time!!