Unlike child support, spousal support is often very difficult (if not impossible) to modify after the divorce is final, so getting it right the first time is a must!
Same happened to me! He told me it was a drunken mistake..I took him back and caught him again. NIGHTMARE! I have three teenage boys and live in OHIO. My first court appearance the judge never mentioned it and I don't think he read anything but the financial aspects of the case. He never mentioned it.
-------------------- Can't wait to start my life over again! Im gonna take a lot less crap next time!!