Me and my wife have split up and in the process of starting a divorce. We both agreed that we were both unhappy and thought it would be for the best. I have never really thought about it until now but I have decided that i really do love her and would like to spend the rest of my life with her. But over the course of the years i have made some really stupid mistakes. Now after all this time she is now bring them up and says that she has real trust issues with me and that i drink to much.
She also has a lot of issues from here marriage before me that has surfaced now. I have asked her about working it out but she says she needs time but I don’t want to be hanging on to a dream that is not going to happen.
Do you think it is worth the effort to try to get here back or do you think she is too far gone?