Is it OK for me to post? Im not devorced...yet. Man, this is strange for me. I never thought I would be doing this 4 months ago. My wife had an affair so I guess that changed it for me. I’m 31 and have 2 kids. I have been married 10 years. To make it short… I left a void in my wife emotionally. She has always dealt with depression since before I meet her. It was hard on me and I withdrew from her and then most everything in my life. I am very mixed about all this because I have turned my life around. I stopped hiding from life and have found some of the best joy that anyone could… Mainly my kids and friends. But the whole thing sucks about the affair. My wife left the house. I have the kids and I am doing other things I have never done before… I wrote a check to pay for something. It took me 10 minutes, LOL. I was told once that no one could know how I feel unless they had been there… from a guy who had been there. I don’t know what I am looking for. I do know I can use something from those who have been through it.
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