You are at a great place here. Alot of us are in the exact same situation that you are. Like ssrachel suggested go to the main forum, instead of the state by state one you are using now. The main forum has all kinds of topics and alot of people to help you. Please share with us your feelings because there are alot of great people here. We also have a great time. You might want to visit the Mancave (Men only) thats alot of fun, and us women bust in on you guys all the time. I am sorry you are here but welcome!!