Divorce Support Forums: painful decision -advice anyone?

Undecided 72 - I guess you are also in a "limbo" situation? You are undecided?

Ronnie 515 - Yes, Your situation sounds very similar to mine. Do you feel kind of like your husband is just refusing to be happy??

I feel like things got worse over this past year when I finally really started demanding more respect and started standing my ground more. I used to just let my husband have his way and now I fight more to get what I want rather than to always just give in. It seems that he's happiest when he's getting what HE wants and the eaiser thing to do is actually just to pacify him all the time. How sad is that, to not value my own wants and needs just as much?

We don't have children together. My daughter is 19 and left home. The problems I've had with her are a whole other story that I don't have the energy to go into at the moment. The issues with my daughter certainly haven't helped our marriage at all.

By the way, my husband now tells me he has wanted to have a baby off and on for quite some time now and has just recently decided to tell me about it.

I don't know why I haven't gone to the attorney yet. I guess I just have to be 100% sure - or keep "beating a dead horse" so to speak???

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