Up until he left child support was paid by him with a cashiers check. He will not even give her an honest amount of what he will be making at the moment, says he is poor. Finally got an address so now we have to figure out what to file and go from there. She turned in the paper for modified support and his words were she isn't getting that much. He thinks as her parents we pay for everything and she is free to spend her money her way so therefore she deserves nothing. When they first split we had to help her pay for childcare because he refused to pay her for 3 months until they went to court to finalize the divorce. I guess our next step is to figure out what to file, a little confusing. Do you know if it is best to file for a hearing? How would she file if he is in contempt? Thanks for your answer as it has been more than helpful.