Unlike child support, spousal support is often very difficult (if not impossible) to modify after the divorce is final, so getting it right the first time is a must!
It sounds like the expense of the house is what is causing you the financial hardship. Have the two of you discussed selling it? If you have no kids and are living alone maybe a downsize in housing would be a good idea.
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