It is a good idea to talk about daily struggles. My life has become one big daily struggle and I'm confused. My husband has started trying more, after I told him last week that I've had it and I had already figured out how to divide up all our stuff and which attorney I was going to schedule an appt. with. It's still rough and I don't know what's "normal" ups and downs and when it's just over. I am very unhappy - half of me wants to leave and half of me thinks I should keep trying.
It helps to hear about the experiences and insights of others. We started going to a marriage counselor and she said that this hellish experience is a normal thing that couples go through in marriages.....