I am married to a wonderful man,he is an excellent father, and also an excellent step father to my children. Problem is, his children have decided they wont come to our house with him because they have a problem with me, which shocks me, there havent been any problems, other than the normal adjustment when we first started dating 5 years ago, He has been divorced for 6 years, we have been married for four, his ex wife cant stand the fact that her kids are around another woman, so she fills their heads with garbage and manipulates them. This has always happened, but now the kids refused to come with him this weekend, on his time(isnt there some kind of law against interfering with a court order) and she is taking him to court to try to take his rights away. The kids are 11 and 13, can that happen or will they tell her shes being ridiculous,I know the court will let them make some decisions at their age, she honestly is crazy, and our marriage is not going to be ruined because of all these games, we've already made that clear to them. I dont know what I can do, she never quits, shes obviously very insecure as a mother, now her kids are becoming just as crazy, theyve been brainwashed over time.I feel so bad for my husband, hes brokenhearted, but also feels so disappointed in the kids for letting her get in their heads with all this trash. HELP!!
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