This poor guy, is doing everything he should and more because he feels he has to. He has soo much on his shoulders right now with a vindictive stbx and a "gf" who was on him constantly on the other side. I can not imagine the stress this guy has been going through.
Kathie is finally seeing the way to handle things and is seeing some positive results from it. Hopefully, I PRAY! that this guy is feeling the positive effects also at least when he goes home.
You may have a similar situation and are venting a bit from your experience. Heck, Ive been guilty of it. BUT.. Stirring up this pot with the stbx B, is not going to help honestly.
-------------------- "...And what a beautiful mess this is
It's like picking up trash in dresses..."