well I think he has the thought of another women as he had alway chatted online to o\w..I don't really trust him as in the last year he has sneak about alot of stuff..I can't really say how just incase he finds his way to this board,, the real problem is working with him also..I feel once i get over the shock of 24 years i will be better off..but he has never been able to get credit.. and it is all in my name he says the only thing I am worried about is the money and in a way it is quite a bit outstanding...also the business is in my name but he is need to make it run..really stuck in a pickle..thanks for any advice