Rock - Imagine that ... Not only were you one of those rare (<10%) of men who actually got custody of your children, but you also set aside the issue of CS in favor of doing what truly IS "in the best interest of the child(ren)." So many times all I read/hear is from ex-wives who have custody and whine that their ex-husband doesn't pay child support. Your commendation will come in the form of a watching your children blossom into remarkable adults.