My wife wanted the divorce after 14 years of marriage. We agreed to go to one lawyer and decided on everything ourselves. We split everything 50-50. Our children, ages 17 and 13, are going to live 50-50 with both of us. I am keeping the house due to me being able to afford it financialy, and so our kids have some stability in their lives. We agreed neither would pay child support or alomony to one another. Now she is on her own she wants $400 a month for her expenses.
She went to a lawyer after papers were signed. The lawyer told my ex-wife I was obligated to pay her money and that she could take me back to court anytime if needed for a " lifestyle change" if I get a new job, get remarried, ect... I would rather go back to court then have her threatning court all the time.
Since everything was agreed and already signed and filed I was wanting to know if she has any grounds on taking me back to court. I asked why I owed her money. Her response is thatI make more money then her and that is the way it is.The mother always gets child support even if custody is 50-50. Is there any truth to her alligations on me owing her money and being able to take me to court for changes in life styles. Neither of us has primary custody it is strictly jointcustody.