My husband has a 9 yr old son from his 1st wife that we have 50% of the time and rotating holidays.This x-mas is our yr to have his son. The problem is my husband wants to spend x-mas with his family because we have his son this yr. His family lives local and we get to see them weekly. My family lives out of state and only get to see them 2-3 times a yr. My husband told me when he has his son he wants to spend the holidays with his family not mine. on the yrs he does not have his son we can spend with my family. I guess i'm just hurt he would not want to spend x-mas with my family when he has his son(who my family loves). Please tell me am i over reacting? Is his "deal" fair?