Divorce Support Forums: Can anyone suggest a strategy?

Wife and I separated for 26 months and after 4 continuances (wife's atty claims recurrent illness) in divorce, have binding arbitration in a month. After $130,000 fees and costs now I'm broke, she's broke, credit cards maxedm and my attorney needs retainer to continue. We hve witnesses to interview, depositions, five day arbitration expense, and wife declines to discuss private settlement over access to children or even discuss what she wants. Current parenting plan (interim) is I see kids (6, 12 yrs) every other weekend and every other Thursday. Her atty filed 4 motions in last 8 weeks to exclude me from parenting and decision making. I'm exhausted, broke, have alienated kids, but ready to fight to maintain access to kids. How can I get agreement before another $30,000 expense for arbitration? all friends and relatives tapped out, too. Wife's atty fined for past motions and owes me $2000. Help things look bleak right now. Still out of work from divorce distration and persistent motions to exclude me from kids. No criminal issues but wife turned me into professional board from drinking and now tough to get job.

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