1. I live in North Carolina. I was kicked out of the home that my wife, although she says that I walked out, in mid-March 2007. My wife (whom I am divorcing) lives in South Carolina. Is it true that you can only get a divorce in the state you were married - which in this case is North Carolina?
2. I have been struggling for almost a year now trying to find a job. I had one that lasted only three months, 10 hrs work week and making under $100.00 a week. My wife and I do have a child together but I barely have enough to take care of myself and send child support to my wife for our daughter. Would it be wise of me to settle with giving up my right as a parent so that my daughter would have a chance at a better life with her mother? What risks do I have if I can't provide for my daughter?