My blessings dear, You have every reason to pursue this relationship cuz FEW MEN ARE GODLY MEN and even fewer want to be responsible for raising another mans brood. God is good and loves us all. Realize that you can open that door, but don't fear for God in the Spirit of Christ is with you and will guide you both and protect you. Give this man a little encouragement and ask his motives,when he answers, if your eyes well up with tears of JOY it is a blessing from the GREATEST source possible. MERRY CHRISTMAS, I may be in the same place with a lady I have yet to meet, but my 2 girls have given their injured daddy their blessing.
-------------------- "I did not choose to become the person I am , I became that person by the choices I made".