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I'm sorry for this I have lived through it first hand. What I have to say to you is somewhat odd perhaps. He is preoccupied with his new woman, this is the time to strike with the divorce proceedings, put it in overdrive while he is distracted and has a good feeling flowing. He will pay less attention to the factors in divorce and the system while he is in this euphoric state. This is the time to get things in writing and set yourself up for the life that follows. Pay no attention to what he is doing other than to see this as an opportunity to strike NOW. While I know this sounds cold I know for sure this is great advise.

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I dunno how distracted he is. He told me the other day he wishes we could be together, etc..but I hurt him too much...plus she's been through two divorces already so I'm sure she'll look at the paperwork with a fine tooth comb.

I don't want to screw him out of anything. I still love him regardless if we aren't together anymore. I'm just at the point in the grieving process that I don't want our daughter to get hurt anymore than she already has. She's only two and I can see she understands so much.

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I don't miss you, I miss the person I thought you were.

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