I'm sure everyone's experience is different, but I really wonder if we could fast forward 5 years, what we'd say about ourselves at this point.
I totally don't regret any of my past relationships post-d, but I also see I wasn't all that stable. Remember, I'm the one who chose to stay in (and idealize) a 25 year marriage to a cold fish. My choosing skills are not that good. I'm very much swayed by the heart.
I'm not putting down those of us who get involved or am judgemental, just wondering if we're not all a bit crazy. Because (after all) crazy people don't know they're crazy. : )
And thanks HK., but no, I really have not yet reached equilibrium.
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