Being in the same boat as you, Mar, I do consider it an accomplishment to still be single after two years but only because I don't think I've run into the right person just yet. If I had and bailed or if I hadn't and attached anyway, I wager I'd be pretty unhappy right now. The gratification comes in knowing a couple things. I took the time to reacquaint myself with...myself. I also weathered a couple dating storms, and a couple relationships, without premature-eLATCH-ON-ulating. Older, wiser, and onward now.