"I flit about like a hummingbird, not knowing how I feel about whom on what day. I date and date, and then get sick of dating. I'm not a safe nor smart choice."
ME TOO ... but getting closer to solid ground every day
"Then, I think of my ex and others who are now married to or living with their affair or 1st post-d relationship, and I think "Yuk. That can't be good." The fallout from divorce almost guarantees we're going to go through a huge gamut of emotions. Not a solid foundation on which to build a relationship."
I OFTEN WONDER ABOUT THIS. Still not sure if he found his ideal mate, or fell into a sinkhole.