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Re: guilt and pity? reasons to stay?
      01/08/08 05:46 PM (70.58.132.9)
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Guilt and pity are not reasons to stay.

If she is not willing to make an attempt at a joyous and prodcutive (within her limitations) life, then she has broken part of the vows she made to you. (I know most people don't promise to try to maintain a happy outlook on life, and share the domestic burden explicitly, but I like to think it's implicit in the "marriage contract"). I know upholding a commitment is important, but there are times when it is appropriate to break said commitment.

Yes, you may be financialy responsible for her for a long period, but so what. Is any price truly worth your soul? Besides, your leaving may be the biggest favor to her in a strange way - might be the catalyst she needs to get a life. Or to getting in touch with long lost family members, or ....

Good Luck

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* guilt and pity? reasons to stay? What will I lose 01/08/08 09:03 AM
. * * Re: guilt and pity? reasons to stay? lilliy   01/12/08 03:56 PM
. * * Re: guilt and pity? reasons to stay? HardKnox   01/08/08 09:26 AM
. * * Re: guilt and pity? reasons to stay? golightly   01/08/08 05:46 PM
. * * Re: guilt and pity? reasons to stay? What will I lose   05/07/08 09:48 AM
. * * Re: guilt and pity? reasons to stay? What will I lose   05/30/08 09:32 AM
. * * Re: guilt and pity? reasons to stay? hopefull   09/15/08 10:02 PM
. * * Re: guilt and pity? reasons to stay? What will I lose   10/03/08 12:54 PM
. * * Re: guilt and pity? reasons to stay? MommaMia   01/09/08 10:51 AM
. * * Re: guilt and pity? reasons to stay? What will I lose   01/09/08 01:13 PM
. * * Re: guilt and pity? reasons to stay? What will I lose   01/09/08 07:16 PM
. * * Re: guilt and pity? reasons to stay? jbar   01/10/08 02:30 AM
. * * Re: guilt and pity? reasons to stay? What will I lose   01/10/08 03:32 PM
. * * Re: guilt and pity? reasons to stay? jbar   01/11/08 08:26 PM
. * * Re: guilt and pity? reasons to stay? Jada   01/12/08 12:10 AM
. * * Re: guilt and pity? reasons to stay? jbar   01/12/08 02:21 AM
. * * Re: guilt and pity? reasons to stay? Jada   01/12/08 09:35 AM
. * * Re: guilt and pity? reasons to stay? jbar   01/13/08 02:13 AM
. * * Re: guilt and pity? reasons to stay? Jada   01/13/08 07:46 AM
. * * Re: guilt and pity? reasons to stay? jbar   01/13/08 07:29 PM
. * * Re: guilt and pity? reasons to stay? What will I lose   01/13/08 09:56 AM
. * * Re: guilt and pity? reasons to stay? mistake#2   01/13/08 08:32 PM
. * * Re: guilt and pity? reasons to stay? What will I lose   01/14/08 07:58 PM
. * * Re: guilt and pity? reasons to stay? What will I lose   01/13/08 09:05 PM
. * * Re: guilt and pity? reasons to stay? mistake#2   01/10/08 10:31 PM

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