Well at this point a lot of difference he's at about 48K gross and she is working part time, not sure on income can't be too much. But she worked in the past and made fair money 9 years ago 23K. Her boys that are at home are 17 and 9. The 18 year old chose to live with us. He is still under a temp order paying for the 18 year old in cs. We are going pro se and pre trial is set for April 8 th. She has dragged this out three years. The judge wants it it over. She has been through 9 lawyers. He filed Bankrupcy as she accumulated huge debt he did not know about. They lost the house, but she was awarded 18K from the equity. Does that help? Can you provide any guidance?
Thank you Please don't misunderstand me I am a single mom as well. I only wasnt what is fair and right for the children, She wants to destry her STBX, very bitter and actually a but off. He has no problem helping her but does not want ot be tied for life, nor do I. The kids love our place and are there all the time, she is not too kind to her children. thank you