I agree with the other posts and especially with Malone. Look into a shelter in your community if you have no friends there that you can go to. Are there maybe friends in your old town you could turn to temporarily until you get back on your feet?
I know exactly what you have been going through because my stbx was just like that. I would swear I was reading my and my daughters bio when I read your post. Another suggestion I would make is start writing down things as they happen just to have it clear if and when you may need to present your case.
Good luck and I'm praying for you and your grand-daughter.
Christine
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